Roz
service provider of Walter
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7linked records
40mentions
3questions
2022–2026saved
What the account says about Roz
47 records, oldest first2023
Feb 1
Roz's first morning at Mom's
Mar 4
Key lockbox, Mom's carport
Carport post by the kitchen door. Roz, Pam, HearthGuard have it.
Mar 10
Roz does: breakfast, AM pills from the box, bath M & F, laundry, lunch, supper…
…plated
doesn't: shots, filling the box (agency rule), driving Mom in her own car - she uses the Buick
she writes in the spiral notebook on the table
May 9
Tolbert - down 11 lb since Nov. started sertraline
will eat: tomato soup, pimento cheese, peaches, eggs, the church chicken salad, vanilla wafers
Roz: small plate, don't ask, set it down
May 21
Dr. Tolbert says Mom is depressed. I knew she was sad. I didn't know there was…
…a line between the two that you could be on the wrong side of.
She's lost eleven pounds. She cries around four in the afternoon, which Roz says is when he used to come in from the shop.
He put her on a pill for it. She asked me if that meant she was crazy. I said no, it means you were married fifty-eight years. She…
2024
Jan 21
Snow and then ice, Monday through Friday. Eight inches in Cleveland. Roz couldn…
…'t get there Monday or Wednesday. I couldn't get there at all until Thursday afternoon, with the truck in four-wheel the whole way and two semis jackknifed on 75.
I called her four times a day. Mrs. Jenkins walked over twice in her late husband's boots. Bobby Kirkland salted her carport.
She was fine. She'd been ea…
Feb 18
shower Mon & Fri w/ Roz, not alone. water heater at 120. pendant stays ON
Mar 10
Did Mom's numbers at the kitchen table tonight. What comes in, what goes out. R…
…oz is about fourteen hundred a month. It comes out a little ahead if nothing breaks. Things break.
Then I did mine. Cam starts college in August.
I met somebody. Mike's wife's cousin, at their fish fry. Carla. She's a dental hygienist and she's been divorced longer than I have. I told her inside of ten minutes that…
Aug 21
Roz came in 9:15, Mom at the table in her gown, sweating, not making sense. sug…
…ar 41 on the old meter. juice, 911, then me.
ER says the glipizide. took it and didn't eat, or took it twice.
glipizide is DONE.
if Roz had been a Tuesday -
get: real meter, glucose tablets - kitchen, purse, nightstand
Aug 22
Yesterday Roz walked in and found Mom at the table soaked through and talking n…
…onsense. Blood sugar 41. Roz got juice in her and called the ambulance and then me. I was on a roof in Red Bank looking at an air handler. I don't remember the drive.
By the time I got to Whitlow she was sitting up eating graham crackers and asked me why I wasn't at work.
It was Wednesday. Roz comes Wednesday. If i…
Aug 23
Kitchen drawer left of the stove, and one in Roz's bag. · Mom
Kitchen drawer left of the stove, and one in Roz's bag.
Sep 1
Mom's fridge, big type
WALT cell 423-555-0148
WALT work 423-555-0117
Mrs. Jenkins 423-555-0136
Roz 423-555-0165
Betty 423-555-0109
Russ 423-555-0124
Dr. Tolbert 423-555-0112
Pharmacy 423-555-0130
PRESS THE BUTTON if you fall
2025
Jan 19
weight every morning - after the bathroom, before breakfast, gown only
scale stays on the tile
Roz writes it on the fridge calendar M-W-F, Mom the other days. I check Sundays
Jan 26
Home a week. She gets on the scale every morning in her gown and calls out the…
…number like a bingo caller, and Roz writes it on the calendar. 148, 148, 149, 148. I cleaned out her pantry and she watched me do it with her arms folded. She let the soup go. She fought for the saltines. I took the saltines.
Mar 12
cat - methimazole 2x a day, Roz does the AM one in a treat. bottle on TOP of th…
…e fridge, not w/ Mom's
Mar 27
Brenda, Shear Delight, Thurs 10. wash & set $30, perm $65 every 3 mo. Roz drive…
…s - extra hour, $28, I pay her direct
Jun 10
for the memory doctor Thurs
- same question 3-4x in an hour
- checkbook: quit summer 2023
- stove eye left on, twice (March, May)
- calls me Walter sometimes
- can't do the pill box w/o Roz
- still good: church, hymns, recipes, who everybody's people are
- 50 min home from Food City
ask: is it Alzheimer's. what's coming. anything that works. liv…
Jul 4
shower by herself 8 pm, no Roz, pendant on the sink. slipped stepping out. on t…
…he floor ~20 min, got to the hall phone. nothing broken
- 2nd grab bar, vertical, at the entry
- pendant on a lanyard that doesn't come off
- threshold ramp, carport door
- glue-down strips, not the suction mat
Jul 6
PILL BOX - how I fill it Sundays
two boxes, 7 days each. BLUE = morning. PURPLE = bedtime.
MORNING (Roz hands it to her w/ breakfast, except the thyroid)
levothyroxine 88 - FIRST, by itself, empty stomach. the little green box
Eliquis 2.5
metoprolol 50
losartan 50
furosemide 40
metformin 500
sertraline 50
vitamin D
SUPPER
metformin…
Oct 12
Russ - $300/mo toward Roz
10/20 300
11/18 300
12 -
1 -
Oct 13
Told Russ the numbers last night. What Roz costs, what Mom gets, what's in the…
…bank, how long it lasts. I'd never said it to him in dollars before. He went quiet, and then he said he'd send three hundred a month.
I said thank you. I meant it and I also wanted to say that I've spent more than that on gas.
He said, "I know you're carrying it." I said somebody has to live here. He said that's no…
Dec 7
Mom - digital frame, slippers (same), Jergens, big calendar
Cam - stethoscope $110, gas card
Carla - ??
Roz - $150
Dwayne & the pharmacy girls - pralines
2026
Jan 5
Gentle Ridge $29/hr from 1/1. was 27.50 for '24 and '25, 26 at the start. 12 hr…
…s = $348/wk
Jan 11
The agency went up to twenty-nine an hour. I did the arithmetic again tonight.…
…It still works at three mornings a week. It doesn't work at five, and five is coming. Roz said so herself, carefully, on Friday. She said Mom isn't getting dressed on the days she's not there.
Russ's three hundred came twice and stopped. I'm not going to chase my brother for three hundred dollars.
There's a long-te…
Apr 2
"grandson in jail in Atlanta", $2,800 in gift cards. Mom's landline. Roz took t…
…he phone
- call blocking on (*77)
- sign by the phone
- told the bank. her debit card stays in MY wallet, she has $40 cash
Apr 3
Some man called Mom yesterday and said he was her grandson and he was in jail.…
…She was looking for her pocketbook when Roz took the phone. I've been angry for twenty-four hours at a person I'll never find. Not that he tried to steal. That he said "Grandma" to her in a voice she wanted to believe, and for a minute she had a grandson in trouble, and she was scared for him.
May 20
Whitlow again. Roz called at ten this morning and said Mom didn't know what day…
…it was and was asking for Dad to come in from work. She had a fever. It's a urinary infection, and at her age and with her memory that's enough to take the floor out.
She's on an IV. I told three different people about the penicillin and the sulfa. It was already on her wristband. I told them anyway.
She knew me to…
May 22
what the nurse said to watch for - it doesn't look like a bladder infection in…
…old people
- sudden: more confused than her normal, sleepy, mean, seeing things
- not eating, new falls
- may never say it burns
- fever maybe
FIRST: urine test. Tolbert's does a same-day drop off, Roz can take the cup
May 24
Home Friday. She's most of the way back. Not all. The doctor said that's how it…
…goes, each one of these takes a little and gives most of it back.
Roz and I talked on the carport. She'll do five mornings. I called Pam and it starts the first of June.
That's twenty-five hundred a month, and Mom brings in twenty-five sixty. So from here on the house, the lights, the insurance and the groceries al…
May 30
Roz 5 mornings from Mon 6/1, M-F 9-1. Pam OK'd it
20 hrs x 29 = $580/wk, ~2,500/mo
hair appt is inside her hours now
weekends me
Tolbert is writing the letter
Jun 7
First week of Roz five days. Mom was dressed every morning by ten. Hair combed.…
…Roz had her shelling peas on the carport Thursday. I didn't know how tight I'd been wound about Tuesdays and Thursdays until there weren't any. I slept eight hours Wednesday night.
Jun 21
Roz's notebook this wk
Mon - ate good. bath. sugar 162. wt 149
Tues - asked for Mr. Walter at breakfast, settled
Weds - didn't want to dress. tried again at 10, fine
Thurs - hair
Fri - bath. Thurs evening pills still in the box
Jul 8
Lanternfield nurse at Mom's house
Jul 8
Lanternfield CLAIM opened. LTC-CL-2607-33915. 888-555-0108, Marguerite ext 4410
they want:
- claim form + the POA - sent
- doctor's statement (2 of 6, or cognitive) - Tolbert's letter
- agency license + plan of care - Pam
- their nurse comes to the house
90 days OF PAID CARE, not calendar, from today. 5 days/wk = 18 wks. ~Nov 12
then pays what Roz costs up to the daily limit. invoices every month…
Aug 5
Lanternfield nurse at Mom's 1:00-2:15. watched her get up, walk, asked the date…
…, clock drawing. asked Roz what she does. letter in 2 wks
Sep 6
Mom, Dr. Markovic (feet)
Sep 6
Mom per month, Roz at 5 days
IN 2,560 (SS 1,948 + pension 612)
OUT
Roz 2,500
utilities, phone, TV 360
Evermont 214.50
LTC premium 239 (2,870/yr)
house ins 108, car ins 62, property tax 122
groceries 380
church 100, hair 120, yard 105, pendant 35, paper 16.50, bugs 32
other 150
= ~4,540
SHORT ~1,980/mo, out of savings since June…
Sep 7
Labor Day, all day at Mom's, Roz off. A good one.
We picked the last tomatoes. She made cornbread, start to finish, no help, didn't measure, and it was right. She told me how she met Dad at the skating rink in Benton. She was eighteen and he was just out of the Army and he couldn't skate. He held the rail the whole night and asked her three times if she wanted a Coke…
Sep 8
Mom, flu shot and COVID booster at Sorrelwood
Sep 13
Alabama Oct 17. who sits w/ Mom - Roz? Linda?
Sep 18
Mom, calcium blood test before the Prolia shot
Sep 24
Mom's new debit card is coming in the mail
Sep 30
flu shots - Mom at Sorrelwood, a Roz morning
Oct 2
Gentle Ridge Home Care, September invoice (Roz) · $2436.0
Check from Mom's account. Then send it to Lanternfield. · Gentle Ridge Home Care, September invoice (Roz)
Oct 3
Russ is coming for Thanksgiving. Tammy sent the flights. Five days.
I've been composing what I'll say to him since Tuesday. Most of the drafts aren't kind. The one I'll use is, "Spend a morning with her and Roz. Then tell me what you think we ought to do." Because I'd like to hear it. I've been deciding everything by myself for three years and eleven months.
Cool this morning, first…
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Facts
| First name | Rosalind |
|---|---|
| Last name | Tate |
| Nickname | Roz |
| Company | Gentle Ridge Home Care |
| Comments | Text her, she can't pick up while she's working. |
Phones
- number: '4235550165' variant: Mobile
People
Walt PruittRoz is service provider of Walt Pruitt
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Mom · 2 records Mrs. Jenkins · 2 records Dad · 1 record Cam · 1 record Russ · 1 record Tammy (Russ's wife) · 1 record Cody Pruitt · 1 record Paige Pruitt · 1 record Denise Halloran · 1 record Aunt Betty · 1 record Uncle Harold · 1 record Linda Gossett · 1 recordQuestions
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Questions whose supporting records include Roz or a record linked to them.
q017 Who do they put down as emergency contact, and who has her health care power of attorney? q027 What's the mortgage payment on Mom's house? q029 What's Walter's date of birth?