Theo Nakagawa-Reed
Mom
parent of Theodore
Contact
born Sep 3, 1966 · 60 on Oct 5, 2026
1linked records
35mentions
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2021–2026saved
What the account says about Mom
36 records, oldest first2021
Apr 17
2023
Feb 5
sizes (mom keeps asking)
shirts M (L in anything that shrinks)
pants 31x32
shoes 10, boots 10.5
bike shoes 44
hat: big head, 7 1/2
gloves L
May 12
sunday at maren's mom's. bring the dutch oven BACK
2024
Jan 7
birthdays
jan 27 dad
jan 30 kofi
feb 11 maren
apr 12 obaachan
may 16 aunt colleen
jul 19 dez
aug 30 jiichan
sep 3 mom
oct 2 priya
nov 9 hana
dec 14 lu
mine mar 22. miso "june 1" (made up by the shelter)
Apr 14
who gets what
ME: miso (adoption is in my name, and she said it herself, miso is mine). flat file. drafting lamp. the green chair. my bikes. records A-M that were mine before. the rice cooker. half the plants.
MAREN: bed + frame. couch (she paid 300 of the 380). record player. the blue dutch oven (hers from her mom, I just used it…
Jun 15
addresses, for forms
- 3318 Brackenmere Ave S, Apt 3, Mpls 55406. june 1 2024 to now. landlord Gail Hedlund, Fourgable Properties, 612-555-0106
- 2609 Wexcombe Ave S, Apt 204, Mpls 55408. aug 1 2022 to may 31 2024. Corbel Residential, leasing office 612-555-0172. rent 1,480, my half 740. w/ Maren
- 3127 Halloran Ave S, Mpls 55407. aug 15…
Jun 29
where the paper is
- ss card + birth certificate: NOT HERE. mom & dad's, grey filing cabinet in the hall closet, folder THEO - IMPORTANT
- passport: desk drawer, left, the envelope w/ the yen
- car title, signed lease, miso's adoption papers: flat file, top drawer, blue folder
- diploma: the tube behind the flat file
- tax returns: Deb…
Aug 4
urgent care asked about drug allergies. called mom
PENICILLIN: yes. rash all over at 4 (amoxicillin, ear infection). never retested. say yes
nothing else. ragweed aug/sept, cetirizine works
blood type: mom doesn't know
tetanus 8/3/24
Nov 9
Hana is 23 today. called her at lunch her time. she got the job at the animal h…
…ospital, the real one with the surgery suite, not the clinic in the strip mall, and she starts the first week of december. she was eating a burrito in her car and crying a little and telling me about a dog named Kevin.
I'm so proud of her I don't know where to put it. she's the one who stayed. I left at eighteen and…
Nov 22
Mom & dad's wifi
Dec 11
xmas, budget 150 total, not going home this year (flights are 600+)
mom: the heron print framed. frame from the thrift store, cut a new mat
dad: wool socks
hana: drawing of her dog-patients wall? ask for photos. + the hot sauce she likes from the co-op
obaachan + jiichan: a drawing of their persimmon tree from the photo on my phone. ink. mail by the 14th
dez: knife sharpening gift cer…
Dec 22
jiichan in the hospital, pneumonia. call mom tonight
Dec 25
christmas here. didn't go home, the flights were over six hundred and december…
…was already built out of portrait money.
video call at ten their time. everyone at mom and dad's except Jiichan, who has been in the hospital since sunday with pneumonia. they say he's responding to the antibiotics. Obaachan held the phone too close so I mostly talked to her forehead. she had on the brooch. Hana car…
2025
Jan 5
Jiichan went home from the hospital on friday. twelve days. mom says he's weak…
…and annoyed, which she takes as a good sign. he's sleeping in the recliner because the bed is too flat for his chest.
called at eleven. Obaachan answered and said he was resting and then I heard him say something and she said "he wants to know if you have heat." I said yes, radiators. she relayed it. a pause. "he wa…
Feb 2
sunday call. he came to the phone himself, which he hasn't since christmas.
"ah, Theo." are you eating. yes. is it cold. yes, very. then he asked how many radiators I have in the apartment. I said three. he said "count again." I walked around with the phone. living room, bedroom, kitchen. and the bathroom, the little one under the window that I hang the towel on. four. I said four. he made th…
Feb 9
Jiichan died this morning.
mom called at 6:50 my time. I knew before I picked up because she never calls before noon. he went back into the hospital wednesday. it was the pneumonia again and then his heart. she and Obaachan were with him. she said it was quiet. she said he asked what day it was and Obaachan told him sunday and he said "then The…
Feb 10
mom called at 4:50 her time sunday. Jiichan died this morning. logistics:
- flight: tues 2/11, MSP 6:05am -> DEN -> SMF 11:40am. back wed 2/19, SMF 1:15pm -> MSP 8:50pm direct. 512.40 on the card. mom wants to pay, said no
- hana picks me up
- funeral sat 2/15 11am at the temple, then the lunch after in the hall
- wed + thurs: help mom w/ the photo boards, dad is doing the program
- I say s…
Feb 13
(at mom and dad's, in my old room.) I'm walking from the front door to the mail…
…box and counting. I get to forty-one and I'm not there. forty-two, forty-three. the mailbox is the same distance away every time I look up. the driveway is longer or my steps are shorter. his slippers are on the porch behind me, side by side, pointed out.
Feb 16
Sacramento. sunday night, in my old room, with the glow stars still on the ceil…
…ing. the funeral was yesterday. I want to get the week down before it turns into a story I tell.
tuesday. Hana picked me up at the airport and we didn't say anything until the freeway and then she said "he asked for you" and I said "I know, mom told me" and she said "no, before that. all week. he kept asking if you…
Feb 17
things Obaachan said this week
- she met him at a picnic for the church in 1961. he was fixing someone's car radio in the parking lot instead of eating. she brought him a plate and he said thank you without looking up, and she took the plate back. "then he looked up."
- they married in 1962. the persimmon tree went in the week mom was born (1966).…
Mar 22
27. worked ten to five, first properly busy saturday of the year, every bike in…
…south Minneapolis came out of a garage with two flat tires. Lu put a candle in a patch kit.
pho after with Dez and Priya. Priya gave me a book of Hasui's snow prints she found used. I didn't know anyone knew I wanted that.
mom called. Obaachan has moved in with them as of last weekend, into my room, which is funny,…
Jun 20
- pho on Nicollet, #14 extra herbs, $13
- somali spot by the shop, sambusa 2 for $3
- ember & rye: family meal 3:45 if dez sneaks me in
- the diner w/ the hash browns
- mom & dad: the walleye place by the falls
Jul 6
Hana's been here since thursday. she's asleep in my bed with Miso on her feet,…
…traitor. I'm on the camping pad in the living room writing by the bay window.
the 4th: fireworks from the river with Dez and Priya. Hana and Dez argued for an hour about whether a burrito is a sandwich and are now best friends. Priya whispered "she's you but she finishes her sentences."
yesterday the lake. she swam…
Nov 17
dad's knee replacement tomorrow, right knee, 7:30 check-in. mom's off all week.…
…walker ~2 weeks then a cane
mom says don't fly out
send him the national parks jigsaw
11/18: out by 10, went fine
Nov 18
dad's knee surgery was this morning. I was at the shop pretending to sort brake…
…pads by compound, phone face up on the bench. Ines noticed and didn't say anything and took the customers.
mom texted at 12:10 my time: "out. went fine. he's asking for a sandwich." then a photo of him giving a thumbs up with the wrong thumb, the one with the IV in it.
called at six. he was loopy and delighted. he…
Dec 14
going HOME. sat 12/20 to sun 12/28. first time since february.
gifts (budget 200):
- mom: the map print from the Pilcrow book, signed, + coffee (Loon)
- dad: the 2000 piece jigsaw of old radios + coffee (Chickadee)
- hana: a framed drawing of her cat Udon
- obaachan: the 41 steps zine, and I'll read it to her. + new brush pens, she's started doing his sunday painting
pack: sketch…
Dec 21
home. got in yesterday afternoon. sixty degrees and everyone in jackets.
dad met me at the door without the cane, on purpose, standing very straight. he walked me to the car and back to show me. mom rolled her eyes behind him and then hugged me so hard my glasses went sideways.
the house is different. Obaachan's in my old room, so I'm on the fold-out in the den with the humming fish tank.…
Dec 27
last night here. flying back tomorrow at noon. writing in the den with the fish.
the week. I want all of it.
Obaachan gets up at five and I've been getting up with her, which nobody asked me to do. she sweeps the patio in the dark, the same strokes, and then she makes tea and sits at the kitchen table and paints. she started in the spring. his brushes, his ink stone, the cheap newsprint not the g…
2026
Mar 19
looked at listings last night for two hours. I'm staying. the math isn't close.…
…the bay window is worth 55 dollars. so is Gerald.
mom called this afternoon, out of nowhere, on a thursday. Hana had told her about the cat, which means Hana had told her about the car, which means everyone knows the whole month. mom said "your father and I would like to help" in the voice she uses for parents at th…
Mar 22
28.
I didn't want to do anything and they made me. pho, the four of us. Lu, Dez, Priya. they'd agreed beforehand that I wasn't allowed to look at the bill.
Priya's present is a print of my own bay window with a tiny Miso in it. Dez's is chili crisp. Lu's is a spoke wrench. Hana's box had a photograph I'd never seen: Jiic…
May 2
before mom + dad
- bathroom
- the fiddle leaf (hide? compost?)
- oil the door hinge
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May 15
MOM + DAD HERE thurs 5/21 to mon 5/25. first time either of them sees the apart…
…ment.
flights: in thurs 3:50pm, out mon 12:40pm. they're staying at Colleen + Marcel's in St Paul (I have one bed and a cat)
- thurs: pick up, dinner at Colleen's
- fri: I work 11-3 (swapped w/ Oskar). they want to see the shop. warn Walt
- fri eve: my place. okonomiyaki. clean the bathroom
- sat: farmers market, the…
May 24
they leave tomorrow. mom and dad, in Minneapolis, in my apartment, for the firs…
…t time in the two years I've lived here and the ten I've lived in this city. writing it now while it's all still loud.
thursday I picked them up in the car and dad got in the front and looked at the dash for a while and said "no air conditioning" and I said no, and he rolled the window down by hand and put his elbow…
Jun 28
JAPAN, april 2027. Obaachan turns 88 on april 12 and is taking some of Jiichan'…
…s ashes to Yuasa.
who: Obaachan, mom, dad, Hana, me. Kenta (the cousin) is meeting us in Wakayama
dates (mom's draft): leave SFO sat 4/3, home wed 4/14. Osaka 2 nights, Yuasa 5, Kyoto 3
my costs:
- flight MSP -> SFO -> KIX: ~1,350 round trip if I book by november
- rail + food + my share of rooms: ~900
- mom + dad ar…
Aug 18
Kofi + Linh, sat nov 7, 4pm, the botanical garden in Oakland. I'm a groomsman!!…
…and I'm doing the invitation as my gift
invitation: 5x7. the 51 bus where they met, w/ a just-married sign. ink + one colour, persimmon orange
due to the printer by 9/1. (sent 8/29)
travel: fly MSP -> SMF thurs 11/5, stay at mom + dad's, drive down w/ Hana fri. back to MSP tues 11/10, so I'm still in Sacramento for H…
Sep 24
hana says japan is the 2nd now? mom's draft said the 3rd. ask mom
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Facts
| First name | Naomi |
|---|---|
| Last name | Nakagawa |
| Nickname | Mom |
| Date of birth | 1966-09-03 |
Phones
- number: '9165550108' variant: Mobile
Emails
- email: naomi.nakagawa@fastletter.example variant: Personal
Addresses
- variant: Home street_address_1: 1764 Sorrelwick Way city: Sacramento state: California postal_code: '95831'
People
Theo Nakagawa-ReedMom is parent of Theo Nakagawa-Reed
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Dad · 1 record Hana Nakagawa-Reed · 1 record Obaachan · 1 record Jiichan · 1 record Aunt Colleen · 1 record Miso · 1 record Dez · 1 record Priya · 1 record Jonah · 1 record Sam Haddad · 1 record Lu · 1 record Kofi · 1 recordQuestions
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q001 what's my SSN q013 what address is printed on my license q014 I'm filling out the rental application for the Finchley place. Pull together what they'll ask for: full legal name, date of birth, where I've lived the last five years with dates, my current landlord and her phone, what I pay in rent, employer and income, my car, references and an emergency contact.